Finding the Perfect Dress

For a lot of women, their wedding dress is the highlight of the whole wedding planning experience. Many brides-to-be have had a dream wedding gown in mind since they were little girls and when it comes time to shop for the real thing a lot of time and energy will be spent on this aspect of the planning process.

Keep an Open Mind

Unless you are completely set about having a certain color and style of wedding dress you should try to be open to all styles, at least at first. Seeing certain cuts of a dress in a magazine or on a mannequin may be misleading as many dresses could look quite different on your body. That dream dress you’ve always had in mind may not actually suit your shape once you get it on. By trying a wide range of style at first, you’ll give yourself a better idea of what’s going to look perfect on you so you can start narrowing your search.

Shop with a Trusted Companion

While your caring friend or loving sister may have your best interests in mind, they may not always have your tastes in mind as well. Everyone has their own style, so while it’s a great idea to bring someone with you for a second opinion and extra pair of eyes, be sure the shopping buddy you bring knows what suits you and understands what you want rather than what styles they prefer.

NO MATTER HOW GOOD THE DRESS LOOKS make sure YOU look good in it!  You have to look at yourself very closely.  Don't be overwhelmed by the beauty of the dress.  Look at your body!  Stand in front of the mirror and look at yourself.  Look at your cleavage.  Is it the look you are going for?  Can you dance in this dress?  The most overlooked spot on a bride when picking a dress is her armpits!  Depending upon how the straps are made, even a size 2 bride can have bulges by her armpits.  Keeping your shoulders held back won't even fix the problem.  If you really like the dress, consider having it altered to remove the straps.  Pull the straps down and see if the bulges go away.  If they don't, move on!  Look at your back.  Is the dress so tight, or made in such a way, that you now have back fat, or back boobs as they are often called?  No matter how awesome that dress is, if you have bulges you are no longer the bride in the awesome dress, you are the bride "That should never have worn that dress!"  So be critical and get past the dress and look closely at how it makes you look.  Because you should look awesome on your wedding day, you deserve it.

Budget before You Shop

Before you even set foot in a store, figure out your wedding budget and decide how much you’ll be willing to spend on a dress. Stick to shopping only in the bridal shops that have dresses in your price range. Figure out if you’ll be renting your dress, buying one brand new, or looking for a used dress. Some women buy a dress and never get married or some buy their dress but change their minds a buy an entirely different one before their wedding day. Buying a used wedding dress is an option that could save you quite a bit of money.

Keep the Little Things in Mind

If you have any idea how you’ll be wearing your hair and makeup, try to wear it that way when you do your dress shopping. Wear shoes that would be similar to something you’d wear for your wedding as well. Since you’ll be wearing your dress all night, don’t forget that you’ll need to have at least some degree of comfort. You don’t want to spend your entire wedding day tripping over a beautiful but ridiculous train or struggling to breathe in a too-tight corset. Take your time when shopping for the perfect dress and you’ll feel radiant and wonderful when it comes time to walk down the aisle.